Hey there, I'm Tess
My immediate & extended relatives couldn't function well enough to raise a child, so from the age of 15 I lived in foster care in a small, prairie town where everyone knew I was the kid who was left behind.
I finished Grade 12 in an old, farm-house rental because I had aged-out of the system. I chronically felt afraid & lost but never told a soul.
Everyone saw my stoicism as strength, but it was fear. I didn't show my emotions for fear of rejection. I decided that I would 'act' happy, be smart & accomplish everything; then I'd belong.
My worth became tied to my performance. I excelled outwardly & struggled inwardly to the point of near-ruin.
Chronic unworthiness, self doubt, anger, fear, uncertainty all loomed in my mind.
I kept a smile plastered on my face but the whole time, I believed I didn't belong, because anyone who accepted me was be-friending a smiley, phoney Tess.
the personal story of
Master Therapeutic Coach | Developmental Psych Researcher | HSP | INFJ | Tea-Obsessed | Former OVERACHIEVER
AFTER 2 decades of chasing moving goals & trying to prove to myself & the world that I was ok, eventually the cracks showed.
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...I combined my training with compassion & well-honed intuition. As a result, I changed my relationship with my emotions & the belief systems that kept me hidden.
I built my private practice on my evidence-based training and life-taught principles. There is no greater JOY than teaching my clients these skills & watching them can see beyond their blocks and create lives they love.
If this is possible for me & them, it is possible for you & it DOESN'T have to be a LONG, COMPLICATED process.
My training in Psychology, taught me how to heal, but I was not free until...
Be qualified.
Overperform.
Exaggerate who you are.
Escape & isolate.
Ten years ago, I believed I needed those things too.
My actions were being influenced by quiet, lurking beliefs that I was acting on - but didn't know I had.
Unconscious Beliefs about myself & others kept me small & made it impossible to FEEL GOOD.
Those Beliefs caused me to assume the way I saw myself was "just the person I was," but now I know how wrong I was. And if you are struggling I also know
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Our SUBCONSCIOUS programming forms our healing & suffering. We have the power to change that language; we just need to be taught HOW. I invested 20 years of study & practice to support others' ability to gain freedom. My expertise aids the strategy but my personal story drives the passion.
My methods are evidence-based & curated from 15 yrs as a professional coach & trained specialist. Together, we create steps you can maintain & build a foundation for sustainable healing & functional change. I give you a framework, not just to 'know' what to do but to start applying it. If you found this page, it's a call to create something new today.
Investing 2 decades of rigorous research & higher education, I produced a premium coaching practice that yields lasting patterns of change on MENTAL, EMOTIONAL & SPIRITUAL levels. The methods I teach my clients are the ones I taught myself & create lasting freedom.
| MASTER THERAPEUTIC COACH | AUTHOR | DEVELOPMENTAL PSYCHOLOGY RESEARCHER |
Straight talk,
LONG walks,
short emails,
helping you claim
agency in your life.
Comparison,
band-aid solutions,
self-blame,
"perfection",
hustle.
You don't have to know where you need help, you only need the desire to feel better. Through my training in Psychotherapy & Trauma Recovery Work, you can discover what prevents you from doing & feeling how you want, how to break free of old patterns & create peace individually & in your most important relationships.
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I believe in Accessible-Aid & reflect that in my Fair & Equitable Pricing. Tess René Coaching is a premium Therapeutic Coaching practice, combining the healing power of therapeutic modalities with the action oriented nature of coaching. I'm dedicated to your goals, increasing mental wellness & living your life on your terms.
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I unlock your potential & maximize your performance by helping you to learn more about yourself & offering guidance while building your self trust: a key feature of my practice. I honour my clients individuality & help them create a plan specifically tailored to their needs, blocks & goals.